What a ridiculous stance. Putin assembles 100k plus soldiers on your border and says accept our governance, forget self determination, forget democracy, come back and be part of Russia... Or be invaded. Then it's the Ukrainians fault for standing against the aggressor. Utter, utter rot.
Putin or Russia have no god given right to rule over anywhere except Russia, and to be fair even that could be argued against.
What happens if he does same to Latvia, Estonia or even Poland? Oh, come on in Putin. We don't really want democracy, we, d much rather be governed by a self serving gangster. Stop being ridiculous Flecc. It's not the fault of the defender defending their own country. It's the fault of the attacker, the aggressor.
Do you offer burglars cups of tea flecc? As they beat the living day lights out of you demanding your money?
Germany could annexe Austria for living room.
No, you stop being ridiculous.
Ukraine was a free nation, founded as a country by Russia in 1917. They became free of the old USSR when that collapsed and were free of the Russian Federation later as you acknowledged, trading with the outside world and Ukrainians could and did travel freely anywhere.
But even free countries cannot threaten their neighbours, and the threat of them joining NATO and being a base for US missiles was just that real threat for Russia.
Even the USA believes that, look how they reacted when Cuba, their neighbour, got allied to Russia and was getting missiles installed. They forcefully stopped that happening and invaded Cuba, an independent country, with military force. To this day they hold onto part of Cuba.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander as the saying goes, it was ok for the USA so why is it so wrong for Russia?
Once again, all Ukraine needed to have done was remove the threat by making it impossible. Then there never would have been any invasion.
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