I expect you may not have meant it literally, but of course I did not vote in your referendum. Living as I do in another country, and being a citizen of it, the option was not open to me, so as that polite woman in the red beret, in the channel 4 news segment put it " Ireland lost , get over it, you can't have everything...."
The reason it still matters is that the end game has not yet played out.
There seems to be an air of fatalistic ennui within the UK, on one side and an empty triumphalism on the other. Both of which are very dangerous in a democracy.
Can you not see how corrosive the entire saga has been? . It has cost. A prime minister, a government its majority, zero legislation over a protracted period, utter indecision . Reductions in living standards, cost of living increases, reduced productivity .. a proud nation scrambling around in a desire to create international friends while ignoring and insulting those who have been your allies for 50 + years , and only last week a concerted attempt to ridicule and offend your closest neighbour with lies, nothing yet has been achieve.. need I go on...
When the history of this time comes to be written, it needs to be shown that one side was wilful. That is why these are not just debating points.