They are not forced is correct, they are bribed by the USA with money, flooded with help, by EU membership promises. Between 2004 and 2008 when Putin finally lost his temper with Georgia and attacked, the USA had literally thousands of Americans in that country, steering and bribing them to be on course to join NATOCountries are not forced to join NATO.
They join because of the fear autocrats like Putin inflict on them.
If that were true Georgia, Ukraine, Finland and Belarus who were directly connected to Putin's Russia would have joined NATO some 25 years ago when they could all have been independent and EU applicants as well. In truth they all turned down the opportunity for one or both, three off them opting to stay aligned to Russia instead.The nearer they are to Putin's Russia, the more they feel they need NATO.
Which is why Russia is NOT a threat to the west, as I've already said.Russia can inflict a lot of deaths and destruction but can't win a war with NATO.
There is no threat now, nor has ever been since the USSR was disbanded, so there was no excuse for the war mongering USA to continue to expand NATO and surround Russia's west and south.
The USA is the only reason there is a war in Ukraine, or the 2008 war in Georgia, proven since by Georgia now being still fully independent and more at peace at last, now the US NATO persuasions have been finally rejected by them. They can still apply to join the EU if they want to, Russia has made that clear.
Ukraine had that option too, but like fools chose to self destruct instead.
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