You really don't have to look desperately hard, for things going wrong, unless you want good news, have I missed any yet?
is it an accident that bad things are happening, just bad luck perhaps?
You really don't connect cause with effect, do you?
However I agree completely that Bitterness is a terrible thing, so why your bitter comments?
Do my observations not quite fit with your dream?
If it is so certain the correct choice was made, they should be water off a ducks back, as yours are to me.
A good decision needs to be able to stand up to criticism