Maybe that is my problem. Way back in the 1960s and early 1970s, I had issues with my motorbikes of stripped threads and broken bits from over-tightening. Brutality led to numerous issues. I didn't hit it massively hard. I don't think the correct tool would easily tighten it enough. The leverage on the handle would tighten it way less than my hits with a three pound hammer on a well seated, blunt chisel in one of the notches..I got progressively more brutal with the tightening of that nut, to the point where it hasn't needed tightening for over three years.