Totally agree on all points and I've been closely following The Netherlands on this since the late 1960s so am very familiar.
The difference relates to the outcome of WW2. We were far less damaged and our economy and pay packets recovered quite quickly, so our ubiquitous cycling of the 1940s quickly gave way. First to the add-on cyclemotors into the 1950s when the new scooters like Vespa and Lambretta took over, following quickly by adoption of cars from the turn of that decade, all as people got better off.
The Netherlands had a far slower recovery for obvious reasons, so lagged behind us but were just as willingly following the same course. That lead to their government seeing the trend away from cycling early in the 1970s, so they were able to act to stop that happening. Their actions were to start the long term program of cycling facilities and make life less easy for car drivers.
That was still easy for them then since things hadn't gone too far, but here at that time it was already far too late with cars and driving dominant and needing every scrap of road space and more. Also it's far, far more difficult once people have switched to car use and experienced their undeniable huge personal benefits.
We can't undo what's been done without a vast fleet of bulldozers and countless trillions of pounds, plus punitive laws that would prevent any government being re-elected.
Even now the Dutch reckon they are only three quarters way through building their cycling infrastructure after fifty determined years at it. If we set out to match them now, no-one living today would see the full benefit of reaching what they have already. And as I've posted, the decision to integrate e-cars into the power delivery structure in the UK and many other European countries has rather scuppered the chances of getting most people out of cars.
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I agree, but I think we can achieve things much more quickly than the time it has taken the Dutch, as they have tried a lot already and we can learn from their mistakes and successes.
Even if we didn't have a completely perfect system, with targetted, modest investment and proper joined up thinking, a lot could be achieved. I don't think we can just throw our hands up in the air and say "It's too late for us."
Also, I think Paris is a good example. Due to Covid, they have made an effort to install new cycling infrastructure and it has made a significant impact. Car use has dropped significantly.