Everybody has arrived at the decision they made through some logical process in their own minds or feelings
In my own case feelings haven't come into it, nor even very much of a logical process. As I've made clear in many posts I'm only concerned with facts, and indeed my post that started this thread 3460 posts ago was only about facts, hence the thread title.
I've posted the undeniable facts before, but here for the first time I'll repeat them together:
1) With the enforced loss of our Empire and it's captive market following WW2, our industries and much of our commerce collapsed into rapid decline. This left us in a parlous state by the early 1970s. Our two corrective actions then were joining the Common Market and bringing in the IMF to run the economy through the rest of the '70s.
2) Those corrective actions gradually turned us around, the IMF balancing the books and EU actions and subsidies enabling new manufacturing here for the tariff free EU market. A notable example was Nissan at Sunderland in 1984, starting a process that brought in other car manufacturers from Japan, France and Germany and now China.
3) Throughout our 47 years of EU membership those opposed to the EU within politics and business have maintained that our EU membership prevents us trading worldwide outside of EU trade deals. This is demonstrably untrue, since many EU nations trade freely and very successful thoughout the whole world. Notable examples are Germany, Sweden, Denmark, The Netherlands, France and Italy. Even our own JCB proves it can be done well. The only reason we cannot do like them and complain instead is simply because we are almost entirely not good enough, either at doing it or because we don't have enough of what others want.
4) Getting advantageous trade deals with the EU, or anyone else for that matter is very difficult, as this thread's opening post shows. Having had nearly half a century without negotiating such deals leaves us ill equipped to do so, as our struggles with the experienced EU negotiators in the Brexit negotiations shows only too well.
5) Trade deals with the EU for outsiders do not include Services. Since we are very heavily dependent on our sales of services to the EU, leaving the EU has a severe loss of trading over time built in.
It is solely those facts that made me a Remainer. If I'd ignored the facts and gone on feelings alone instead, I would probably have been a Leaver.
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