https://eur-lex.europa.eu/summary/glossary/democratic_deficit.html
Democratic deficit in EU is not a lie at all. Its a fact. Having democratic systems in place does not assure democracy.
Read the article. (it is not biased one way or other)
Can any system trully claim to be without democratic deficit with a turn out of 43%.(the figure for European elections 2009)
Your quotes about White middle class priviliged males completely misses the point,unfortunately thats the same for millions of folk in other classes, colours, races of folk within europe.
Before a problem can be fixed it has to be recognised. You dont even see it when the race, colour, gender and background of nearly every EU representitive is staring you in the face. Compare the EU assembly with even our own HoC.
Cant remember which MEP said it but his comment was.
"If you want to see gender equality and all races represented in EU look at cleaners leaving the EU buildings"
Its not a good position for EU or EU supporters to be in and claim either no demicratic deficit or equal opportunities. Both are inapplicable to EU at moment. Folk denying the obvious only makes matters worse.
Both matters need addressing along with many others within EU.
The EU is in historic terms a brand new organisation. It should reflect tje values and thoughts of modern culture. It does not, it is actially more old fashioned than our own model of demicratic government. Just examine gender distribution within EU. Its actually quite appalling for such a forward thinking body to not practice what it preaches. Examine the distribution of folk from black origin. Barely represented at EU. Its actually quite unbelievable but what is more so is that educated folk such as yourself either deny it, justify it or make silly comments about it.
If EU had recognised these faults, put policies in place to remedy the obvious failures I, d be much more likely to be pro EU. As it is they play lip service to areas that do need real change.