If you accept the validity of your first sentence, can you not therefore accept that the remainder is tripe.?
The UK will hit international legal difficulties , not just EU ones, if they attempt to bypass the Anglo Irish agreement( the so called Good Friday Agreement). That agreement was predicated on the assumption that both the UK and Ireland were members of the EU. There are a number of clauses in it and a range of rights ,committee, and councils . It is not open to unilateral repudiation. .
In my earlier posting I suggested that the money is not the overriding consideration that you think it is. When there is a need , money can always be found or diverted.
You use the word panicking describing the behaviour of EU officials, I would substitute being highly flustrated as the emotional state. Here we are nearly a year into the process and there are no suggestions that the UK has engaged in the process. If you have ever had the difficulty of dealing with a drunk or mentally ill person, one find it a very trying process. The EU is presumably attempting to negotiate with a schizophrenic UK team. The professional civil servants know, as do you also that remaining is the best option, their political masters are flipping and flopping , because neither faction has a clear majority and they don't actually know what they want.they have no mandate other than somehow to create an acceptable Brexit.
The EU is threatening the UK that the UK will not get a free trade deal unless it comes up with more money.....Hammonds interview on the Marr show today said that the UK will satisfy its commitments,that surely is a calculable sum,at the moment £18billion,the EU appear to want a lot more.
We (David Davis) is saying that the Irish border problem is easily solved by a FTD EU-UK.....so the solution is easy for the EU,pick up the £18 billion and start talking about the FTD,with an agreement that it will be settled by March 2019.
At the moment my business is booming,I have just finished the NEC Classic Show....the boom was coming from Irish customers flying over to Birmingham from Dublin,the strength of the Euro v weak £ making UK goods very cheap. I have customers in the north who are very busy with Irish customers taking goods back across the border.
If we 'crash out' of the EU I assume that all EU customers will be sold to on rest of the world terms....that means that we will zero rate exports,if there is no customs border between the north and south nobody will be collecting import vat into the south,that will make north goods 20% cheaper than current,the EU cannot allow that situation to exist for long,the same situation will exist Dover-Calais....if the EU put the anticipated 54% tariff on e-bikes into the EU,then we could continue with the current 6% duty,with the strength of the Euro that will make electric bikes in the north substantially cheaper than in the south.
I agree that the current Remain situation is the best,not only for financial reasons but also for social reasons,next best is a FTD that closely resembles Remain,next best is 'crash out',a bad deal for the UK controlled by the EU is the worst option and in this I agree with May that 'a bad deal is worse than no deal'.
Let's be honest the EU is desperate for our money,the longer these negotiations take the more pressure on the EU to accept a mutually good FTD. I am not happy where we are but the UK must stand its ground to achieve a fair deal for the UK,Ireland is unfortunately the 'meat in the sandwich'.
KudosDave