If it was a woman would that make that comment fine?God grief. Another attack. There are many women called Alex, and @alexfnoble hasn't stated if it is male or female, none of the Toseven trolls have. From their online behaviour, they all seem to be the same person. For all I know, @alexfnoble could be married to itself.
Even though we all know that you meant it as a gay slur, it would still be unbelievably inappropriate no matter what gender it referred to.
You can't claim that you want civility and then be shown to have posted things like that.
It's not an attack to remind you of your disgusting and uncivil behaviour.