I have written some 3500 posts ,and I don't believe I used those terms in any of them.The mistake many who did not vote for leave - is to think people who DID vote 'leave' did it for the money or for immigration. Talking to my friends who voted leave the majority it was something far less tangible than that. Of course it's summed up by the 'take back control' but even they/we are not so stupid as to think us little people ever have 'control'. But it was along those lines.
Oh sure you can say we're all stupid - zenophobic - racist - sure - we've heard it all. But there was a hope in there. A hope that has not yet quite been completely extinguished. Though I fear it will be. But perhaps at least for a few moments it felt like the little people had won something worth winning.
The argument about "taking back control " is actually one I have sympathy with . The error though is the UK had not lost it. Every decision of consequence in the EU was with the consent of the UK Parliament. That unfortunately is / was the lie that has been foisted on the people's of Britain, by certain politicians and newspaper magnates.
If you have been foolish, it is because you have believed this lie. .
The level of democratic accountability within the EU and previous EEC is extremely high...I am not going to reiterate it here. Other than to say you in the UK have been very badly served by the representatives you have elected to serve you in the Brussels Parliament and the European Commission.