I too now ride a road bike for exercise and pleasure. I just use my electric bike for shopping, visiting and other utilirarian reasons. The road bike weighs 8.5kg and is about equivalent in speed and effort to my electric bike on level 1 power. It was from riding my road bike that I realised the importance of low weight. To this end, for me, only derailleur gears are an option.
There's only one downside to derailleur gears as far as I can see, and that's the problem of getting caught in a high gear from an emergency or unexpected stop. If you have a hub-motor, that's not a problem because the motor will bail you out until you get up to a speed where you can sort out the gears. it's just crank-drive bikes that are problematic. The Nuvinci doesn't suffer any of that, but it has the weight problem. Hub gears are very tricky for pulling away up steep hills because you have to stop pedalling to change gear, which slows you down so you have to change down again. They also can be problematic with crank-drives, especially the ones that run on after you stop pedalling.
For me, the simplicity, versatility, low weight and reliability of a hub-motor and derailleur gears is always going to win. I think a lot of people are put off derailleur gears because they look complicated, when actually they're very simple. Also, they're often not adjusted by the shop properly before selling the bike.In fact just about every one I've checked was not not adjusted properly, and it's not as if they're difficult to adjust.