Mistaken attitude to start with. Most of what are called accidents are really caused and even when two or more are involved and one party is clearly the major cause, it does not completely exonerate the other.Just the word we use "accident" says it all (An event that happens by chance or that is without apparent or deliberate cause.)
I've explained this in meticulous detail a couple of times before, but in essence I was involved in three minor accidents in the early years of my driving career. In all three the other party readily accepted they'd caused it. But after that third one I got to thinking why, in more years of motorcycling I hadn't had any accidents. To cut a long story short I concluded from all the examined facts that I was an inadvertant contributor to those accidents. In motorcycling, and indeed even longer cycling, perhaps because of my vulnerability, I had avoided being in the accident positions despite being on the same roads with all the same people. If that was possible on two wheels, it should be on four and that changed my thinking and future behaviour for the next 60 plus years. The result, not a mark on me or others, a permanently clean licence and full no claims bonuses.
You have far more control than you might think.
Quite right, and I don't avoid everything either. Three years ago approaching a mini roundabout downhill to turn left with the road moist from drizzle, the bike suddenly slid from under me so I just sat down onto its seat tube to rear wheel area as it fell into the lowside. Then I got up, found it was a diesel spill masked by the damp surface that had caused the slide. I just got back on completely unharmed and continued my trip to the supermarket. Of course if I'd been riding like an idiot, head down at speed on the approach it might have been very different since there were cars entering the roundabout just ahead.the black ice caught me out, and I suppose I could have avoided the chance of it by staying inside, staying on the main roads, or even going on the bus and while I accept that you can do many things to avoid being in that situation in the first place you cant avoid everything!
If you can't understand the moral of that story, I can't help you.
You should be able to work out the possible reasons for that, and what can be done about them.I have had a few knocks in my life including motorcycle and car crashes, but never broken a bone whilst others have broken many so what does that mean?
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