How wrong you are about that - you don't know me at all and it is damned rude of you to assume I haven't a clue - what is it with you and belittling people - I have nothing to prove but you it seems, do.
You are right about rudeness, and I would add arrogance. There are many people here who are willing to help, and one or two who want to bathe in their own self-glory.
In my view, an individual who seeks to belittle someone asking for advice, is a bully. It seems you may have stumbled across one.
Just because you
can force a wider hub into rear stays, doesn't mean you should. The bend/shape/profile, together with size/diameter of the stays should be considered, and of course, the use the bike will be put to. Making a claim there is no risk to this, suggests the person making that claim has spent a good deal of time running various stress analyses on the frames of the hundreds of shapes the stays might have on thousands of bike designs...... Which on the face of it, does seem a bit unlikely.
And when someone says to me "you're the first to complain" or "no one else has that problem", I would now just point them at a software package known as Horizon, and the 800+ Post Office staff wrongly convicted of theft from a company that swore in court, their software was infallible. Just because damaged frames through spreading rear stays isn't well known, doesn't mean it can't happen. Who wants to be the first anyway, right?
Titanium frames aren't cheap. Typically, the frames are thin tube and very lightweight. That said, they are known to be fairly forgiving.
In your place, I would get in touch with a reputable supplier, and I can highly recommend Woosh. Ask what width
exactly is required for an
easy fit of a rear hub motor. 130/135/138mm? When you have that confirmed, trial fit some dowel/chair leg/firewood cut to the right size and see/gauge for yourself how much stress the additional spread (if there is any) feels like to you.
That was a good suggestion.
This test will cost a few minutes with a saw, and get you feeling comfortable or not, about a conversion.
If you feel like the stay spread might be too much, then either bin the idea altogether, or buy a cheap donor bike off an auction site to convert instead?
Do come back with your findings.