The mosfets are switched when they get a 12v signal on the gate leg. That 12v is switched by a transistor that gets a 5v signal on its base from the cpu or other controlling circuit. Trace the source of the 12v, which is easy when the mosfets are switched on, then cut the track and put any switch you want on it. That will switch the mosfets off manually regardless of other conditions.
A normal switch on the output won't last very long, regardless of its rating. The problem is the inrush current is astronomically high, and it burns the contacts. Some switch designs are better than others. You'll probably be OK for now, but you'll never know when it might leave you stranded.
If you want to see the inrush current, disconnect the battery, leave it for a few minutes, switch it on and reconnect it to the controller. You'll get a snap sound and see a big spark. That's what happens inside the switch each time you switch on.
Another solution is to use two switches or a two stage switch with a resistor on stage one to pre-charge the capacitor before engaging the main switch. Have a look at this:
Problem Battery to controller connectors-switches can take considerable abuse from initial "connect". Often typical is a spark or "snap". To survive ... the connector, switch or contactor, must be heavier and more durable than is necessary for typical current during use. Solution Most common...
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