Lot's of interesting points on this front v rear thread...more than I've ever seen before, made by people far more knowledgeable and experienced than me
Clearly there's a lot to consider when you're planning a self build.. On my next build I would definitely do RWD for the lower noise benefit and more discrete look. On my present FWD I have a 10Ah battery on the handlebar in a bag but don't feel it affects the steering at all... saying that, I've not ridden it without the bag or unpowered since the day I got the bike, so it could be that I notice a big difference if I removed it! Certainly when riding under power I don't notice having the extra weight at front of the bike anyway.
I don't know if someone has already mentioned, but another factor to consider in determining FWD or RWD is the actual type of bike you're converting itself... if you're going for a small wheel folding commuting bike you might want a much smaller motor ("cute" style) and so FWD could make more sense.