I'm an advocate for hub drives simply because of there simplicity and reliability, I have yet not had any hub motor fail me but have had a kit mid drive fail me twice .
Most simply post regarding mid drive this or that brand because that is what they ride , but they don't convey where or what discipline they ride.
One will find the ones mostly advocating these drives use them for faster riding or very off road disciplines which is fine. But for pottering about they tbh aren't needed and a far simpler more relaxing option is a hub motor.
It is dependant on the control power delivery used.
There are two types of power delivery cheaper 3 spd /3 levels of assist that use Speed Control or the nicer poer delievry options of current control/ simulated torque delivery, these mostly use 5 levels of assist.
Some bikes with the basic speed controllers use maximum power in each assistance level, with each assistance level having a set max speed. The issue with these systems is one can't control the power delivery as one gets a max acceleration all the time , the worse bit being at low speed or setting off . It can lead to less control or spook the rider at low speed so makes for a harsher ride and puts one on edge .
For the most relaxing option, then the other control system is the current control system which is what I use with my hub bikes. The power delivery is just that the amount of power supplied , one has 5 power levels to choose from. The level one power delivering approx. 13% power so a nice gentle acceleration and one can simply switch to another level of power if wanting more oomph from the motor via the controllers delivered power. Speed one doesn't have to worry about as one can simply ride at whatever speed one is happy with.
The pedal action is simply a cadence one or a normal turn of the pedals ,
with the mid drive motors one has to push harder on the pedals as the power delivery is torque assist and relies on the riders exertions for power.
The only way to try each type of power delivery system is to try out /ride each type to see which would suit ones needs.