The motor/crank is one piece, so there is no choice as to how close it is.I think I've just answered my own question.
http://www.eclipsebikes.com/bafang-8fun-bbs01-drive-250w-motor-p-1102.html
This looks like it could be the best and simplest option.
The BBS kit is well-regarded, so if it can be made to fit, it will do a good job.
I share trex's concerns that it will hang too low.
Your trike is not standard mechanically, so there could be other wrinkles which will be hard to overcome.
If you buy the crank kit and try to fit it, you may spend a lot of time and money finding out why the manufacturer uses a rear hub motor.