This morning on the way back from shopping a supermarket home delivery van passed me at a distance that made me feel uncomfortable if I had stretched out my arm I could have touched him.
I soon sat besides him at traffic lights, where I looked at him until he turned to face me, when I said in a calm & normal voice "you were a bit close when you overtook me".
He looked at me & thought for a while, wound the window down & said "you should have been more inside".
The lights turned green, he turned left & I went straight on.
I had to work out what he meant, I had been in my usual left hand side wheel rut, then I realised he did not regard me as a Road Traffic Vehicle but instead I should have been in the gutter.
I had been reading a book on how the brain works, & we are hard wired to form social groups - I was not in the car group but in a minority 2 wheeled sect.
I am glad we had our conversation as its given me an insight into how a minority of drivers view cyclists.
I was also amused by how very "civilised" our talk had been conducted - if he had been closer I would have been annoyed & his reaction would have mirrored mine.
I soon sat besides him at traffic lights, where I looked at him until he turned to face me, when I said in a calm & normal voice "you were a bit close when you overtook me".
He looked at me & thought for a while, wound the window down & said "you should have been more inside".
The lights turned green, he turned left & I went straight on.
I had to work out what he meant, I had been in my usual left hand side wheel rut, then I realised he did not regard me as a Road Traffic Vehicle but instead I should have been in the gutter.
I had been reading a book on how the brain works, & we are hard wired to form social groups - I was not in the car group but in a minority 2 wheeled sect.
I am glad we had our conversation as its given me an insight into how a minority of drivers view cyclists.
I was also amused by how very "civilised" our talk had been conducted - if he had been closer I would have been annoyed & his reaction would have mirrored mine.