the Brompton wheels are 'legendary' for their toughness.
the strength of the spoke is determined by their breaking force, which depends on their elastic modulus of their steel, the spoke angle, dishing, rim, tyres and frame. With all the other factors being equal, the longer the spoke, the more it can elongate before breaking. I'd say the Brompton steel frame has a bit of give, is the major protection against broken spokes.
If the spokes on your larger bike get loose, get it done up or spend a couple of hours learn to true the wheel yourself then you won't have to worry about them again.
Spokes tend to break at the elbow, partly due to torsional metal fatigue, partly due to going past their elasticity in the middle section. The biggest reason for using butted spokes in place of normal spokes is weight saving. Sapim 'strong' is perfectly good but heavy compared to their 'race' or 'laser' version.