We don't know if your motor has a speed sensor in it so it might be better to buy the whole kit with speed sensor, brakes, pedal sensor and LCD. It'll be a bit more expensive, but at least it'll work. Throttle is optional.
Fot those of us that are used to swapping controllers and buying stuff from China, it's really simple. It takes me 5 minutes to cut off connectors and solder whatever wires I need. The problem you have is that the controllers that have the same connectors as yours often have different wiring, so they don't work if you just connect them. The alternatives become complicated regarding all the different bits you need to get a suitable match for the controller.
Your motor might not have a speed sensor, as it doesn't need one unless you have a speed display. That means you can't use a controller with an LCD unless it has block connectors for the speed sensor, though for some of us, it's easy to open the controller and wire a connector for the speed sensor to it. The cheap controllers that have LED displays, like yours, normally have the block connectors and separate brake wires, and you'd need a motor cable to convert from 9 pin to bullets and block. If I had your bike here in front of me, I'd have it done in 20 minutes, but, unless you're going to put the time in to figure out how it all works, you wouldn't be able to do it. There is nothing that you can just buy, connect, and it'lll work other than the OEM controller and control panel.