Totally agreedThere are there is plenty of references on line. Finland engaged in an uneasy subservient relationship with the much larger USSR and later The Russian Federation . They were required to pay reparations after WW2 .. despite the fact that it was they that had been attacked by the USSR. They were never Nazi , but were tarred with the same brush because Russia attacked.and Germany supplied munitions. Some of those reparations were a land grab by the USSR.
There were and are " understandings" that certain politians and political parties would not be given portfolios in Government ,even in colitions, even if their voting strength justified it . Now Finland leaped in and got its EU membership when Russia's eyes were elsewhere. And of course they continued to recognise that NATO would be a step too far.
Perhaps you are not aware of the sensitivities of a small country adjacent to one of the major power blocks and all the compromises, and self censorship which is necessary to keep up the illusion of friendship. Ireland's relationship with the UK is not as fraught , but even so it has its moments . References to "Finlandisaton" , are well documented.
I would not have bothered to respond, except for your insistence that Finland is "happy " with the arrangement
Finnish president's words.