They really do extract the urine with the shipping cost and, as you say, the only way to make sense of that is a group buy or something similar. I'm used to seeing China-sourced components with cheap or free shipping when they come via ebay or DX, so I don't see why AliExpress can't do the same.Or you could buy these cables which will tidy up the wiring:
TIP - buy 5 for the same postage as 1 and sell the extra 4 - I will buy one of them
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My tip for joining wires is to use thin walled brass tubing, cut to the required length, slip one end of the tubing onto the wire and solder, that leaves the other acting like a socket for the other wire, finish off by sleeving with heat shrink - available from most hobby shops.