It's getting like a war zone in the main forum.....I ain't going back in without me 'elmet an' flak jacket!
Indalo
Indalo
Firstly Tony, congratulations on reaching 19,000 posts, an amazing achievementDon't worry, I've seen it far worse!
In fact I've been out of the picture for the second time recently, first time four days, second time eight days up to yesterday, each time offline and no phones, due to theft of the 600 line cables that feed my area. They run through remote woodlands which makes it very easy to use a 4 x 4 to tow the cables out of the underground tubes that house them. Since there's no mobile phone signal on any network in my immediate home area, it's like going back to the 19th century.
I don't have first hand experience but much familiarity with some of it's circumstances!Oh, what was it like in the 19th century, do tell
Mondays was the nation's wash day. On a monday my mother would spend the whole day scrubbing clothes on the washboard in the butler sink, while boiling whites in a copper gas heated boiler. The moment I got home from school my immediate job was winding the mangle for the major items like sheets etc, my mother feeding them through while I did the hard work of turning the handle to give her some relief. Then it was helping her to fill the washing lines. After doing an hour or two of that from about 8 years old onwards, fitness was assured, and with food rationing added there was no chance of becoming obese. I was nick-named "tin-ribs" in the family since they all clearly showed like a skin covered skeleton!I can't imagine doing things like the washing manually. You'd never get any down time. But at least you'd all be pretty fit from all the physical activities.
I wonder what it will be like in 40 years time...
We run a small Third World (sub-Saharan) charity. The kids there lead the same sort of hard life that we lived during the Second World War - though of course they battle wirh even greater problems than we ever had to. Disease, lack of fresh water, very poor sanitation and no electricity. Yet we have to have the greatest respect for these children - and their parents - because they work hard in appalling conditions trying to better themselves. They manage with great dignity, astonishing good humour and are very forgiving of our crass ignorance. The youngsters are very mature - I've had an eight year old take me shopping in the fish market - she selected the fish, haggled over the price and was quite upset when her mum insisted on doing the cleaning & cooking. They treasure education. I honestly feel regret that some of my teenaged relatives don't have half the coping skills of some of my young African friends. I feel even more regret that all of my young African friends don't have 1% of the chances we in the west throw away. Sorry. Rant over.Mondays was the nation's wash day. On a monday my mother would spend the whole day scrubbing clothes on the washboard in the butler sink, while boiling whites in a copper gas heated boiler. The moment I got home from school my immediate job was winding the mangle for the major items like sheets etc, my mother feeding them through while I did the hard work of turning the handle to give her some relief. Then it was helping her to fill the washing lines. After doing an hour or two of that from about 8 years old onwards, fitness was assured, and with food rationing added there was no chance of becoming obese. I was nick-named "tin-ribs" in the family since they all clearly showed like a skin covered skeleton!
From 11 years old I was doing a double paper round in the morning, leaving home at 6 am, then after an after school snack it was a double round in the evening delivering the Bournemouth Daily Eco as it was at that time. By 7 pm I was home after a 13 hour day. After the Saturday morning rounds, I crossed the road to Ralphs the butchers and spent to about 1 pm delivering weekend joints all over north Bournemouth on a trade bike, collecting the money for them as I went. Then in the afternoon I helped Sid the assistant butcher in making the stock of sausages for the coming week, a bit like the mangle job really, winding the screw driven compressor to press the mix we'd made into the skins. After that it was the end of day scrubdown, washing down the blocks, counters and window platforms, cleaning the windows and scattering fresh sawdust over the shop floor ready for the Monday. I had Sundays off.
Today's kids would have a fit if asked to do a fraction of that, but the sad thing is that they would love the chance if they had it. Kids love entering into the adult world of work, and as recently as the 1970s they still could, being seen on market stalls everywhere. But then into the 1980s the nanny state crowd started to interfere and now the restrictions make it almost impossible, maximum number of hours, earliest and latest start times, plus health and safety measures. Most of what I did would be banned today.
What will it be like in 40 years time? It could go one of two ways. We could continue on the present path of increasing flab and multiplying number of neuroses and inadequacies. On the other hand, if we believe the gloom-mongers, we could go backwards to an impoverished future of greater hardship.
I won't be around to find out.
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I think both good and bad as I said earlier, but as I've replied to Tom above, the satisfactions that did come from those age old ways were more lasting. All the signs are that we are very definitely on a bad path now and we urgently need to make some major changes if it's not to get worse.I am not so sure, and wonder if they were they good old days. ?